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Money Talks - Think SIP before EMI !

Loan and Debt is part of life, many people think that without taking a loan they cant buy any capital goods in their life. It could be vehicle, house hold machines. This believe has created from long time.  Olden days, shop used to sell these on installment basis with an interest. Now things changed, we have zero interest loans. We appreciate the generosity of shops. What a nice people to offer us loans without interest.  Let’s be sure, no one can run business without any income. There will be catch. It could be financiers getting discount on item purchased. We may think, that ok. Let them earn from shops. But, there is an opportunity we are missing. What is it ? We could earn discounts if we pay full in cash.  Plus one more disadvantage, for the next few months whatever the EMI period, our savings is stuck. Our spending habit is changing. Next time if we want something, we will buy with loan. If spending become our habit and miss EMI, we are in debt trap.  Think bef...

Shut up and listen

Who are you to advise me ?  I am just suggesting  I don’t need any suggestion Ok, why are saying it me ? I feel like  Then, what should I do  Be silent  Ok Why are silent?  You say so  You are not empathetic  Ok,  What ok ?  If you are not interested, I will stop  Ok  Shut the door !! 

Some write up

I am not comfortable with him  Pause Is he comfortable with you ?  I don’t care  Look inward  Are you ?  Why too much dialogue  Start doing  Let the action speak  I am sad  Why do you sad ?  I don’t know  Then, do you need this sadness  No Then get out of it  I am not able to  Do something  What ?  Go for a walk  I am lazy to walk  Take bath  Not feel like  Stand there and jump  I am lazy  Then start screening  No, I can’t  What can you do ?  Nothing  Then do nothing! 

My Pain

I don’t like myself  Why ?  I don’t know  But why ?  I can’t speak to someone  Why is that ?  I don’t like him What did he do ?  He ignore me  Why ?  I don’t know  Did you ask him, Why ?  No Why ?  I don’t know is it intentional  Then, why can’t you start talking?  How can I ?  Just try  No, he should initiate  Then wait  No, I can’t bear the pain  Then you initiate  No, he should  Ok, hold the pain  No, I can’t grieve  Then start taking  No, he should speak first  Then, wait  No, I can’t hold the pain  Be patient  No, I can’t hold anymore  Then, quickly start talking  No, I can’t  Then, get used to the pain  No, I have already many pain It’s ok, add this one too  Um ! 

Precious

 It’s ok to have jealousy  It’s ok to have ego  Knowing that you have both is a gift  Look for your precious  Cherish your precious  You won’t have time for jealousy or ego You are so excited on your precious  You are so focused on your precious  Where do you have time for jealousy or ego  Others may love you or not  You need someone to love you  To love someone is easy  You can do yourself  Focus on loving, not receiving love  Difficult is to be loved  Easy is to love  Without any expectation  Love can’t bring jealousy  Love can’t bring ego  When play with your girl You love to get beaten  No play for ego or jealousy there  Why, you love her  You love her victory  Keep your love for everyone  If you love everyone  You will receive your love from somewhere