My
father was very furious and angry after seeing my Pre degree result. He could
not digest the fact that his son barely passed. He went ahead to check with one
of my professor for any option to re evaluate my answer sheet. He came back from
my professor’s house and he seems very relaxed. He got to know from my professor
that they never thought I will pass because of activities in college.
My
name is Nikhil. Today I stand before you to deliver my first prepared speech on
myself. I am so glad to get this topic because I love myself like all of you
love yourself. When I was in my 10th std an external trainer visited my school
to conduct a workshop. He asked the crowd who they love the most in their lives
and many answered mother, father etc. But then, he asked again that if we ever
got a photo of us in it who would we look for first. The answer was obvious,
isn’t it. Yes, we unknowingly search for us. That was self realization and I
accepted that.
That
incident taught me to love myself even more ever since. I was born and brought
up in Kerala. After completing my school, I joined a good college in Kerala for
Business Administration. Even though I was not good student I got admission
there through sport quota. Please don’t get confused with my fatty look, believe
me I am a good sportsperson. The only one issue is my eating ratio is beyond my
exercise. I was really anxious and nervous as I couldn’t study in my local
language. Completing my schooling in Malayalam medium, the sudden transition to
an English medium was harsh on me. My friends and relatives encouraged and
supported me to join for BBA. But it was this one person , who did it for me .
He said , ' Even the illiterate in England speak English, so then why can’t
you?'. It was an absolute inspiration. Ever since then, I began taking up any
challenge that came my way. Since I was a sport quota student it was my
responsibility to build a good team in college. Always my university matches
came along with my semester exams. I never had option to quit both. It helped me
to manage two important things at the same time. More than I learn my management
lessons from text books, I have learned management via this experience. My sport
life also taught me to work towards a goal, hold the tension and evaluate
myself.
Post
my graduation I came to Bangalore in 2002 to do my PG. Immediately after my PG I
got placed in Reuters. When I began my career here, I had an impression that I
was the worst guy they could ever get. I had stiff competition as my colleagues
were all experienced. I never realized I was moving up the ladder until my team
leader showed me that my performance metrics had topped the whole dept. That was
when I realized I could achieve much more with hard work. When I got the team
leader job, I grabbed the opportunity because I knew I had got a chance to learn
something new and I genuinely love people; but I came to understand that we
needed to build up a model to bridge the gap between the team members and the
task to be done.
In
the year 2009 I got married to beautiful girl (if someone is recording the speech ;)) and we had the blessed addition to
our small, happy family in 2011. She was born on International women’s day;
March 8th. Right now I am enjoying fatherhood with my 15 month old daughter,
developed new hobbies to match family requirements, cooking and kitchen
gardening.
I
want to be a world record holder in something I do. I want to be someone like
Mohammed Ali, Pele or Nelson Mandela. But only issue I am facing is I couldn’t
identify my area I am so passionate about like these legend identified in their
early ages. My goal only something, it is not specific. My search is on for the
specific goal from the last 20 years.
I
have come a long way this 7 years in Thomson Reuters and have acquired some
intangible skills but now I want to specialize in some specific domain. My next
plan is to master some tangible skills, and one of them is to become a good
speaker. So here I am. Thank you all.
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