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An Introduction about me....

Who is your favorite person?

Good, great.

This is the same question one of my trainers asked when I was at the age of 15. I said, my mother... that was true. He again asked, I have repeated my answer. Then he asked, if I give a group photo including you in it, whose photo will you be searching? Answer is obvious, yes. I will check for my picture. That was a realisation, I love myself more than anyone. That is true with of you. It may change only in our teenage, when we see that girl who will be butter for our bread and sugar for our tea. again that is temporary, isnt it?

I have decided to love myself. I have tried to do justice for my studies, but not very studious. I have passed my course with 33 % marks. More importantly I have developed a dream to be successful and be a nice human being. I stopped all my notorious activities and become a honest person. Even now I am carrying my honesty.

I am born and bought up in Kerala in a middle class family, after graduation I have moved to bangalore for my MBA and fluent english language. Seriously those days I used to think, talking english is meant for only intelligent people. In my class more than half students were from Kerala, so learning english didnt happen much, but I taught others, how to speak malayalam.

Post MBA, I have joined a MNC in bangalore and started my career. I have got opportunities to work with different nationalities and help me become a more matured person. I become a manager, which was not at all my cup of tea. Then I realise managing people is the best thing I can do.

In all these time, I continued my love towards me. I have taken opportunities to learn new things and upgrade myself. I started loving another person as well, thats my wife... then one more lady.... no a baby girl. my daughter. After my daughter born, I was bothered to make money.... that pushed my to scale up myself. So many things I have tried but one of the best thing I have encounter is Toastmasters. 2 years back I become a toastmaster and it helped me to become a better communicator and happy person. It is a place for continous learning. I believe That best way to love yourself is by learning new things every day. I feel joining toastmaster help me challenge myself on regular basis.

So who is your favorite person? and what is best way to love yourself is? by learning new things!  

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