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Expectation from all of us!!

I used to ask this question myself, my friends and mentors...
Same question has been asked my direct reports during their 1-1 and what is that key behavior someone have to do showcase  to grow in the organisation?

I didnt get any answer for myself. But I have given a lot of gyan for my direct reports and made them confuse to the core. There are few people tried and stopped. There are few people tried and come to back. They said, my lack of discipline, I could not do. Are you doing that? I gave a smile for that question. Advise can be given by anyone.

But importantly, There are many way to grow in your career or personal life. most of us know what would that do? If you want to reduce fat, do you know how? I know how? but my waist size is growing and growing....

it is the disciple, take us to act on our plans.

In case anyone is still not sure to be a successful employee or build a successful career. I have an answer.

Imagine, you are sick and you go to a doctor. you have fewer. Doctor will check and tell you what to do. you may be rich, successful in your career,  you may senior too... Doctor will diagnose and tell you the options for treatment. whether to go for antibiotics or injection? will also tell you the diet to follow. you may able ask questions. same time if you dont have money, you choose if you can choose less expense treatment too. choice is your depends on your requirement and capacity but doctor will give you all options. if you illness is too bad, you may not have much option. Doctor will take the call.

The question is, Can you become a doctor when come to your area of decision making? be master of your area and present to you boss, what are the options ? cost? urgency? returns? Are supporting your manager to take decisions about your department? or giving confident to your manager with all the supporting information? and more importantly, are you taking ownership with that decision?

Its about how professional you are in your area of work. if you are contributing to the decision making, who can stop you to grow?

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