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happiness !!

Marriage is the most beautiful feeling generally people go through. After marriage I am not sure, everyone go through the same feeling. On marriage day, you feel the person next you is the most beautiful or handsome person you have met. Same way, the most kindest, lovable and trustable person you have met.

We try to show the more handsome look on that day. We decorate ourself to show that. in terms of character as well. Is it faking? on our happiest day, are we faking? I dont think. We are not faking but we are trying to be that handsome guy or most truested or most lovable or most kindest person in this planet.

I can vouch again for the majority. We are being honest on that day of happiness. So on the happinest day, we all are happy, handsome, beautiful, kind, trustworthy and so on and so forth.

But what hell, after marriage things are taking a turn? why are we not happy as our marriage through out our life?  yes, there is only one reason, we are inviting trouble and forgetting to be happy. The moment you forget to be happy, you life become miserable. your marriage become an issue.

So the medicine is no matter what, be happy!! when you fight with your wife, think about that first day of marrige! when you fight with your kid, think about the very first moment you have got him in your hand. when you fight with your boss, think about the very first moment you have got call for employment.

That 'll make you happy.  

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