My first blog....

Sumani and me was travelling. I was driving, she was on the front seat. In a traffic jam, I saw two smart, well dressed girls, may be 10 years old walking on the other side of the road. I asked her, When you grow up, do you want to be like them? She said firmly, I want to be ME !!

Wife, I don’t like talking about money. Husband, Why? Wife, that’s cheap, we have so many other things to discuss. Husband, Like what? Wife, we can talk about our vacation plans or shopping plans. Yes, So many good things around. Husband, But, without money… how can we talk about these? Wife, we can just talk, we can do it, when we can. Husband, so are you ok, if vacation or shopping wont happens? Wife, No, I want to go to Paris, you promised me! Husband, if we don’t have money, how can we go to Paris? Wife, I know honey, you will make it happen!! That’s called TRUST 😊 OK. But if we discuss and build an action plan to accumulate money. We will land up in our dream destination much earlier. Yes, Money matter must be part of family discussion!! Agree?? 

I have spend some time with my little sister after long time. She was going through a tough time with her education. Moreover she has changed as a person a lot than what I knew her. I could see the gap between we both. I have moved from my house for career and whenever I visit I have spend very less time.  I could see a big gad between us. I could see a lot of fear and tension in her. She has fear for everything around her. She was lean, but now she is almost bonny lean. I have visited her college.  She is afraid to talk. By the time she open her month to answer her teachers, teachers loss the patience. She became very timid. I could see that she as a person is good at heart, caring, she want to see happiness around and others. However she could not be vocal about it. It was not being introvert. It was her lack of confidence to express herself. Most of the teachers thinks that she is weak and not good enough.  In fact she is good at what she is interested. She...