I have spend some time with my little sister after long time. She was going through a tough time with her education. Moreover she has changed as a person a lot than what I knew her. I could see the gap between we both. I have moved from my house for career and whenever I visit I have spend very less time.
I could see a big gad between us. I could see a lot of fear and tension in her. She has fear for everything around her. She was lean, but now she is almost bonny lean. I have visited her college.
She is afraid to talk. By the time she open her month to answer her teachers, teachers loss the patience. She became very timid. I could see that she as a person is good at heart, caring, she want to see happiness around and others. However she could not be vocal about it. It was not being introvert. It was her lack of confidence to express herself. Most of the teachers thinks that she is weak and not good enough.
In fact she is good at what she is interested. She is a lonely person, but that doesnt mean that you can ignore her. She may have to take care of her health and love herself. Eat good food, smile at others.
She is scared about everything around. We have walked around the college and met few teachers and officials. She is scared of them, because she is thinking that they dont like her. Yes, it could be right. But, in todays education system, we dont have quality people to turn into diamond.
We are only one to turn ourself into diamond. I want to her to do only two things. Just love herself and treat her as my precious person in this world. Second thing, Love others, whoever she see in front of her.
When you see your puppy or your favorite person after long term, who do you react? Give a big smile and hug, right? Do that, when you see yourself in the mirror and others.
A person shows unconditional love to himself and others will get the love back, Universe can reject it :)
If you have doubt or not convinced. Please try for a week. Take care of yourself with you. Behave to others with love. when the love arise there is no fear, no anger. you will have only warmth and freshness. Just do it !!
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