My first blog....

 You need a partner  It could be your love  Brother  Sister Friend  You need a cheer leader  It could be anybody  Who genuinely happy about your action They can be someone who does things along with you  Or a person who see your actions  Without expecting anything 

When you give  You can’t get back  Or right to take it back  Somebody may give back you one day  That somebody may not be same person That somebody may not be there  Even if not there also  You should happy about your giving  Genuinely happy  Happiness like you achieved something in your life  Giving is your happiness  Not taking  If you have a hope of getting back  It is not giving  It is a trade ! 

 Sumani asked, do you know something called introvert?  Yes, I heard it. I said  Am I an Introvert?  I said, No  Why ? Immediately she wants to know  I see you like to be with friends  No Acha, I don’t speak to many people  I asked, why ?  It’s because I am shy, I am not comfortable  But, I see you  many time, you talk to people very easy That’s because they speak English  Is it English is the problem  Or shyness?  I am not comfortable speaking in Malayalam  Knowing a language and your persality type is different  If you learn Malayalam, you can speak to any Malayali  If have English, you can speak to anyone who speaks English Judging yourself as introvert may not help you  Being introvert is good, if you are really  Personally, I am an introvert  Sumani didn’t believe  She see me talking to everyone  But, I had a time, I was not comfortable opening up  My school and colleg...

 We want a perfect child  We lead a perfect life  We become a perfect role model  Child watch us a become a perfect child  They does all to become that perfect child for their parents  Why do they become perfect child ?  Do they want to perfect for them or for their parents ?  As a child, they may not know  Is it a pressure for the child to become perfect ?  Or they really like the life they are leading  As their family values  Do they have an opinion on their journey to become perfect ?  Developing an opinion on their life is more in important than making them perfect  Perfect is an opinion as per you  Perfection as a parent or as a child is in the eye of beholder  It is healthy to have dialogue on the life  Rather than directions of life  Too much of directions, may lead the child to be a perfect child  Becoming perfect May be an escape for the child  Without even knowing  When the...