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Who says you are an introvert?

 Sumani asked, do you know something called introvert? 

Yes, I heard it. I said 

Am I an Introvert? 

I said, No 

Why ? Immediately she wants to know 

I see you like to be with friends 

No Acha, I don’t speak to many people 

I asked, why ? 

It’s because I am shy, I am not comfortable 

But, I see you  many time, you talk to people very easy

That’s because they speak English 

Is it English is the problem 

Or shyness? 

I am not comfortable speaking in Malayalam 

Knowing a language and your persality type is different 

If you learn Malayalam, you can speak to any Malayali 

If have English, you can speak to anyone who speaks English

Judging yourself as introvert may not help you 

Being introvert is good, if you are really 

Personally, I am an introvert 

Sumani didn’t believe 

She see me talking to everyone 

But, I had a time, I was not comfortable opening up 

My school and college friends can vouch that 

I didn’t know what is introvert or extrovert 

If I was speak to someone I want to 

If I want keep silent, I want to 

Both, I want to do, happily and comfortably 

You can ask yourself 

You want get something, go for it 

Don’t fix up yourself that 

You are this and that, that’s why I cant 

It you are defining you 

Do you want define something it’s not helping you ? 



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