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Marriages are made in heaven

Marriage are made in heaven !!

Oh, really. how does it similar? Everyone want to go to heaven, but once you enter... you can come back.
Same with Marriage !!

No one knows what is inside the heaven? but we think its awesome place to be there !!

Same with Marriage !!

Yes, Marriage and heaven, have to experience, it cant be explained. Even if someone explained you wont feel it. Still you will take the risk.

So all the married people do you want to go to heaven now?

On the day my brother got married, my father declared. Next year, Nikky is going to get married.

Marriage never hooked my head. I was not interested with girls as any Indian boy who is not smart enough to get a girl friend. But now, I dont have to propose to get a girl. All that work will be done by my parents and keep a girl in front of me. What more, Proposing someone and fear of failure was my biggest worry. Since that problem was solved I was OK to get marry.

I had a dream of getting a Aishwarya Rai kind of a girl. Whomever, I liked from matrimonial was either different caste or different state. After staying in Bangalore and watching a lot of Bollywood movies, all Kerala girls was not enough for my eyes. My father showed a girls photo and said, keep this photo, her exams are going on, next month she will be free to meet.

What, ok. I kept that photo in my bag and started my usual days. When I was alone at night, I thought of looking at that photo. I said, she is ok. next day again at my lonely hours, I looked at that photo, ok, she is good. then, comment become better to best and bestest !!

In between, I met with other friends who were married. They said, marriage is not the right thing to do. first 6 months, you will think it is beautiful. Then next 2 year, you will think, its horrible. Then I asked, after two years, you will used to it.

That night, I asked at her photo, will you be bad at me? She blinked her eye at me. Then the day arrived, My meeting with my photo girl. We had a long chat, 3 times my sister in law, came and asked me, shall we go? I said, once thing to discuss. Final after 1 and half hours my brother came and said, ok, lets go.




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