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Happiness to see the fight - My Amma and My wife

 My mom was really annoyed at my wife, Sitara. She was yelling and Sitara was upset. Sitara was not in mood to cook or clean on that day. Mom wanted to see everything in order. She couldnt even imagine, sitara enter the kitchen without a bath. 

my mother couldnt stand with Sitara's lifestyle of thinking about waking up in morning at 11 o clock. Sitara walked to me and said that she cant bear the rules of my Mom.  Sitara's mother let her to be the way she wanted. why this lady wanted me to change, She asked. Her point of view, I understood. But I asked Situ to obey what my mom said. Situ shouded at me for not being at her side. 

I spoke to mom and understood her anger. It's something she couldnt digest. Sitara likes to be free bird, didn't not want any rule for herself and for others sake. The fight has taken to big way. My mother, I have not seen this anger mode in my entire life, Situ started showing a change in her character after 11 years of marriage. 

Still I am happy to see they are fighting, my mom was creating all the mess with Sitara. Sitara was behaving with me in a worst way. Not problem at all. 

Because, I lost my mother when I was at my 9th standard. we had a happy family, even god envied us and took her life away from us. I know it was a dream, but it was so real that my mom was walking and screeming around me. I was in a blessed state of feeling. my mom was alive again after her death. I didnt want to awake from the sleep, Sun was hitting my eyes, Sitara calling me to wake up. I did not want to awake and loss that dream. 

Finally, I had to wake up and still even after couple of years. I can feel Amma presence around me, I am thankful for this dream. I think, Amma really came in that day or God allowed her to visit me once again. Only God and Amma knew, how badly I miss her. Come again, atleast once in 25 years like this. 

We are blessed to have people around us. when we have people around, feel happy and treat them better. we can make them happy when they and you are in this life together. 

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