During my first week of my marriage my sister in law talk about her sister. she mentioned that her sister is honest. When she gets angry we could see horn arising from her head; and she is a good singer. I was very happy but this talk created a scary feeling in my heart because of the second point.
As self believer I promised myself that I will not (even now I have forgot add 'not', thats me) give chance for my wife pop her horns out.
I have asked her to sing that night she was not ready, I have asked, requested, then have done both too many times. Finally she was ready to sing with a condition. I should not look at her eye, I had to turn other side. When I heard the song it was more like' ok finally I got to hear the song'; I forgot to appreciate the way she wanted. Poor me, my wife decided that she wont sing for me again.
But I got to know from my aunt; sister, mother and others that she sing well. She sung for them in my absense... poor me.
After few months we had attented one of my cousins child's naming cermony. there my other relatives forced my wife to sing and she sung for them and I got great honor to enjoy that. nice but she didnt complete the song.
time passed.... we celebrated 2 years of beautiful married life. during this course of time she proved me her sister first two points. and I proved myself that my self control and ability to mingle with everyone wont be enough when I share my life with someone. Her horns came out regularly, even I have learned to fit the horn some time ;) and we were later blessed with a beautiful girl to teach discipline in our life.
mean time I became a lullaby singer. During the early day my daughter used to sleep listening to my lullaby. I was tensed because if she listen only my song her benchmark of good songs will be a concern. But as months passed by my song was not sufficient for her sleep.
I understand from my wife that when both of them are alone; my wife sings for her. thats thr reaon my daughter lost the respect for my song. but poor me could not listen to my wife song... she wont sing in my presence. My wife says that she can sing only to her sister, my sister and our baby... lucky people.
But last time when I was writing my blog in our drawing room; she was trying hard to put ponutti to sleep and singing to her. I could over hear that and listen carefully. Finally I have enjoyed my wifes' song !!
As self believer I promised myself that I will not (even now I have forgot add 'not', thats me) give chance for my wife pop her horns out.
I have asked her to sing that night she was not ready, I have asked, requested, then have done both too many times. Finally she was ready to sing with a condition. I should not look at her eye, I had to turn other side. When I heard the song it was more like' ok finally I got to hear the song'; I forgot to appreciate the way she wanted. Poor me, my wife decided that she wont sing for me again.
But I got to know from my aunt; sister, mother and others that she sing well. She sung for them in my absense... poor me.
After few months we had attented one of my cousins child's naming cermony. there my other relatives forced my wife to sing and she sung for them and I got great honor to enjoy that. nice but she didnt complete the song.
time passed.... we celebrated 2 years of beautiful married life. during this course of time she proved me her sister first two points. and I proved myself that my self control and ability to mingle with everyone wont be enough when I share my life with someone. Her horns came out regularly, even I have learned to fit the horn some time ;) and we were later blessed with a beautiful girl to teach discipline in our life.
mean time I became a lullaby singer. During the early day my daughter used to sleep listening to my lullaby. I was tensed because if she listen only my song her benchmark of good songs will be a concern. But as months passed by my song was not sufficient for her sleep.
I understand from my wife that when both of them are alone; my wife sings for her. thats thr reaon my daughter lost the respect for my song. but poor me could not listen to my wife song... she wont sing in my presence. My wife says that she can sing only to her sister, my sister and our baby... lucky people.
But last time when I was writing my blog in our drawing room; she was trying hard to put ponutti to sleep and singing to her. I could over hear that and listen carefully. Finally I have enjoyed my wifes' song !!
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