My daughter is not some who interact with all people at first sight. She takes her own time to mingle.
Before she turns 1 year she went to her maternal grandparents place along with her mother. I have joined them after a week. Initial days she was not comfortable with other people. In couple of days she becomes closer with all of them. I was not sure that she will recognise me when reach there after a week. But to surprise me she recognises me at the first sight.
My family stay away from parents. My daughter hardly sees my parents and brothers family. She sees my family friends in Bangalore more she meets her relatives. She is not comfortable to play her own with family friends. She wants mine or my wife presence always when my family friends visit us or we visit them.
We all met my family during last weekend in a pilgrim place. My daughter was asking for her cousin (my brother’s son 5 months elder to her) with name. She has started playing immediately they met. She was friendly with my parents and sister at temple. She has spent time with my family members in the absence of me and my wife.
To surprise my she was going to her grandfather and sitting on his lap. When we left them my daughter and nephew had a drop of the tear on their separation for that time. These proof me without any scientific explanation that blood can recognise each other. This is the relationship I want to see in future and tie it more tightly.
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