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But why didn’t I notice their relationship



I have joined a cultural club recently. I have seen that all member of that club is very friendly and give more importance to the fun side of life. Everyone is living for moment and not really giving enough attention for growth or visibility.
I have seen two people different from rest of the other people. They are focusing on all the opportunities come their way and more than that they were creating opportunity for themselves. More than that these two people have really great team work. They are really backing up each other. I started loving and admiring them.
If one of them comes up with any initiatives, another person support and get that done. My respect over them started accumulated. I have noticed that before they come for a meeting, they will discuss each other and come up with a better plan to get acceptance from all.
I had all the prise for them and I have taken their story to my home as well. I told my wife that we should like these two people. They are bringing a great team work than an ideal husband and wife in to their professional life. Even my wife started respecting and envying at them for my praise.
That is the time one of my club member visit my home. My wife asked him at the first how is this two people in the club? She has explained my praise for them at home.
That is time my friend broke the news they are in relationship – that is secret behind that team work.
Oh, thats good. It is really a great thing to have relationships in professional work environment with certain ground rules in place. But why didn’t I notice their relationship !!

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