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This Milestone is new beginning...

Finally I have completed my 10 competent communication speech on 12th Apr 2013 at Toastmasters. My speech was about my whole experience of toast master so far. How I have started, all road blocks, helps I have received to complete speeches.
More than delivering these speeches I have felt of sense of accomplishment post my last promotion.
As person I have gained a lot of confidence and a sense of hope towards my life. I have improved hope and optimism in my life for these last couple of months. I want to be a true toastmaster and become a better communicator. I want to communicate what I want to say with pursuing my listener what really want them to do without hurting them anyway instead they should enjoy doing what I say.  
I know it will take long time. But I do not want kill my energy by just completing this 10 projects.
One point of time in my life, my early stage of graduation I had a confidence that I am better communicator. But this is time I have kind developed a pulling back behaviour because of my bad English skill. It has grown from there to higher level and I became a silent person in places where I supposed to talk in English. This situation continued in my professional life as well.
It is good decision that I have chosen to move to managerial job 5 years back. It pushed me to talk to people. It has restricted me to talk when situation arise. My managers started giving feedbacks at wrong and good situations on my communication.
I had sincere talk with my mentor on this issue. He has suggested me to join Toastmaster. I never thought I could reach this far with same energy and commitment. I was looking for a platform to improve my communication. It is helping me so far really good to take the path I wanted to take.
The urge to improve my communication could be helped me to continue in Toastmasters and deliver what I have take up. Thanks for all my people helped me in this run !!

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